22nd
Something I have to get off my chest
Are you trying to compensate for yourself?
I don’t get it. I don’t get when people attack other people for their own esteem. No one should have to act as your foil. I’m so tired of being the victim of this battering.
Do you have confidence issues? Do you feel like you’re lacking something? If you are, deal with it. Figure out what you can do to fill that void, to make yourself more confident, and to stand as your own person. You should only have to depend on yourself to deal with these issues. Don’t think you have to bring someone else down to create your confidence. No one should have to act as your contrast to make you into the person you want to be. If you are your very own person, you should be able to stand on your own and your personality should be able to shine on it’s own. Don’t depend on attacking and hurting other people so others can see how “great” you are in comparison to the one you view so “lowly.” No one deserves to be treated that way. We should all appreciate our own and others’ uniqueness. There is no absolutely best or absolutely wrong. What you see as flaws can be cute quirks. Don’t go around pointing out people’s flaws. It’s just not nice.
I think once you’ve been able to deal with yourself, then you can look at yourself and be proud. Don’t take pride in showing everyone else this other person is so full of flaws so that you in comparison looks all great and mighty. I don’t see what true feeling of pride can root from that. It is false and just wrong.
Love,
JenniLDDL-ing
